Why does it have to be a game?

The above question is in reference to dating.

Why does it have to be a game? Wouldn't it be easier if it wasn't? If everyone was just honest and communicated like non retarts? (notice I was politically correct and didn't say retard.).

Maybe I am not the norm. Maybe people like the games, makes them feel alive. But I say, wouldn't dirty texting make you feel better?

Why if you want to see someone, you can't just say, "Hey what are doing? I would like to see you tonight, are you available?" Instead of, "I'll be home like 9ish.." Hell you can even say; "I want you at my house at 9:30 when I get there so I can fuck you."

Or why can't you say any of the following:

"I like you, would like to see you again."
"I would like to see you exclusively."
"I just want to fuck you."

Without any worry of how it will be perceived?

I think men actually created the dating games and did it for two reasons:

1) To screw with womens heads
2) Because they are afraid to be honest

And because of this women must play the game back or if they don't are the few that are analyzing stupid fucking texts all day long and planning a non gamer counter attack.

If we all just put our cards on the table, showed our aces and were up front with what we wanted with eachother wouldn't it make dating more fun? At the very least it would let everyone know where they stood. There would be no uncertainty and people would be happier in whatever relationship they had, whether it was with a fuckbuddy, a boyfriend, an almost boyfriend or even a spouse.

And millions of women wouldn't be home right now waiting for the phone to ring, or to get that text or be analyzing the last text or message they got.

Whats even weirder, because of years of games, if you're open and honest, no one knows how to handle it, probably because you have thrown them off their game.

Take it from the new kid on the dating block, just say what the fuck your thinking, be honest don't leave those stupid nagging questions unanswered because at the end, the game ends in tears or screaming arguments.