Friday, August 20, 2010

I don't like this one bit

So I was out last night with a girlfriend and her friend and of course the conversation starts in the direction of guys and dating (I mean how could it not? It's 3 girls.). They are both on match.com and they are looking through the pictures and yadda, yadda, yadda. I am kinda half paying attention as I am in the process of dirty texting (hey if it ain't dirty it's not worth texting) when my friends friend says something to the affect of:

"I just want to be taken out for dinner and have some nice conversation and then go home. I'm not even going on dates with guys i'm interested in"

I was like "Huh? What do you mean? You're going out on dates with guys you have no intention on being with past one date just to get dinner?"

"Yeah, I want to be taken out for dinner and they pay for it."

"That's fucked up. Seriously. You shouldn't do that, I mean why even bother? Why string them along? Or more importantly why would you want to be on a date with someone you have no romantic interest in?

Again the answer is the same "I want to be taken out for dinner and drinks by a guy."

Now see, I'm not saying how I run through men is right - I do have ADD and like to have fun but I roll with 100% honesty. If I am on a date with a guy within 15 minutes I know if I don't like him and want to continue on with the dating game. I let them know right away. Sometimes if he is cute I'll decide to take him home cause hey - I might not want to go out to dinner with him but he could be really good in bed and who doesn't like a good time? But it is clear to everyone involved what the "relationship" is.

I for damn sure will not let a guy pay for my dinner if I am not into him. I will pay for my half. And if I don't like him that way I certainly don't want to be sitting across from him for the lenght of a dinner!

What really pisses me off with this chicks mentality is that this girl - or type of girl - gives the rest of us a bad name. I have a feeling that there are a lot of girls out there like this that just use a guy or guys to get them to buy them drinks, dinner, take them out, etc with no intention of anything but just using them for everything a boyfriend should do and not reciprocating with what a girlfriend should do.

A guy comes into contact with girls like this and it ruins them on every other girl. So it becomes no drinks, dinner, just trying to get into their beds to use them for sex.

A girl using a guy to take them out is the equivalent to a guy using a girl for sex.

Suffice to say, the statement that she made I didn't like one bit. So that in turn made me not like her. So I proceeded to disagree with everything that came out of her mouth and be as bitchy as I could to her without it being so overtly bitchy and my friend would notice. I of course stayed out as long as socially acceptable and hightailed it out of there as soon as possible.

I can't be around people I don't like, or more importantly the shit that comes out of their mouths.

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